Step One:  Keep asking over and over and over and over and over for what you want.

Step Two:  Make promises you won’t keep.

Step Three:  Demand.

Step Four:  Chant.  Over and over.

Step Five:  Whine.

Step Six:   Cry.

Step Seven:   Scream and stomp your feet.

Step Eight:  Hold your breath.

Step Nine:  Threaten.

Step Ten:  Clean your room.  Do the dishes.  Then give your mother a big hug and kiss.  Apologize to her for steps one through nine.  And then ask her nicely.